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Latest Baby News!

03:24 Jan 29 2007
Times Read: 709


His newest accomplishment. He started creeping. It's not exactly crawling but it's pulling himself along the floor with his hands. He is very happy with himself and is trying to venture off into other rooms.



He's so cute and he's getting big. He went for a scheduled doctor appointment last week and he now weights 22 lbs !


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lovelylioness
lovelylioness
09:49 Sep 14 2008

that is the sweetest thing i have ever heard... are you going to fight to get custody of your baby boy?





 

Rape

03:35 Jan 26 2007
Times Read: 713


Rape ... A crime I believe should have an automatic death penalty.


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Rape Trail

03:09 Jan 26 2007
Times Read: 715


Jacob Zuma is a former Deputy President of the Republic of South Africa and current deputy president of the governing political party, the African National Congress (ANC).



In November, 2005 an investigation began into charges that he had raped the 31 year old daughter of a deceased struggle comrade at his home in Forest Town, Johannesburg. Even before charges were filed, the news media reported that the alleged victim was a member of a prominent ANC family and also an AIDS activist.



In December 2005, he was also charged in the Johannesburg High Court with rape. The accuser, the young daughter of a deceased friend of Zuma's during the struggle years against apartheid, was known by Zuma to be HIV positive. On May 8, 2006, the Court dismissed the charges, agreeing that the sexual act in question was consensual. During the trial, Zuma admitted to having unprotected sex with his accuser but claimed that he took a shower afterwards to cut the risk of contracting HIV. This statement has been condemned by the judge, health experts, AIDS activists as well as ridiculed by the public in general.



SERIOUSLY WTF?



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News Report - BBC

Wednesday, 15 February 2006, 00:06 GMT


Zuma case reveals SA rape problem





The rape trial of Jacob Zuma has highlighted widespread problems with the way South Africa's justice system deals with rape allegations, reports Justin Pearce in Johannesburg.



Former Deputy President Jacob Zuma arrived at the Johannesburg High Court in a motorcade of four black cars with flashing lights, shortly before his trial for rape was due to start on Monday.



The woman who has laid a charge of rape against him had arrived much earlier, at 0700, and was hurried into the court building with a headscarf covering her face.



She spent the next three hours waiting in a secret location inside, to avoid what was expected to be a hostile crowd.



The woman, a 31-year-old Aids activist and long-time family friend of Jacob Zuma, is being guarded by a witness protection programme and has been in hiding for the three months since charges were laid.



Those Zuma supporters who had arrived early jeered her as she walked in.



One man compared Jacob Zuma to former US President Bill Clinton: "Both presidents who were accused by a woman."



Denial

One friend of the alleged victim who spoke to the BBC suggested South African society is in denial where rape is concerned.



"We keep quiet and want to push everything under the carpet when it is a case of rape - I think this is such a case."



But alongside the several hundred people chanting slogans in support of Jacob Zuma outside the court, there was also a smaller and more orderly demonstration of about 40 women and a scattering of men, holding placards with slogans like "Against her will - against the law".



"We are trying to send a message of support to survivors of sexual violence - to draw attention to social and legal problems around sexual violence in South Africa," said Carrie Shelver of People Opposing Woman Abuse (Powa), one of the organisations participating in the demonstration.



A woman is raped in South Africa every 26 seconds, according to Powa's estimate.



Only one in nine rapes that takes place in South Africa is ever reported - out of the reported cases, only 7% lead to a conviction, Powa says.



Outdated law

Ms Shelver says much of the problem had to do with South Africa's Sexual Offences Act and the way the justice system deals with women who bring accusations of rape.



The law uses a narrow definition of rape, and court procedure often requires the woman to prove that she did not provoke the rape.



"She will be put on a stand and attention will shift to her sexual history," Ms Shelver says.



South Africa's Sexual Offences Act dates back to 1957: the days of apartheid when the country's rulers were not only all white, but also all male.



Much has changed since then, at least on the surface, even if social attitudes remain conservative.



A third of parliamentarians, the deputy president and several of the most prominent cabinet members are women.



The post-apartheid constitution specifically prohibits discrimination on the basis of gender, yet the old Sexual Offences Act remains in place.



Waiting for leadership

New draft legislation has been passed back and forth between government departments and parliamentary committees since 1998.



"The delay is depriving people of justice," says Joyce Maluleke, director in the Justice Department's gender directorate.



Ms Maluleke agrees that under the current laws governing rape cases, "victims become more accused than the accused".



She blames the drawn-out process in passing the new legislation on the number of different government departments involved, including justice, police and social development.



"The new act will ensure the victim is protected," Ms Maluleke says. "Those who wish to testify in camera will be able to do so."



"The accused also has a right to be protected, but not at the expense of the victim," she adds.



Asked when the new draft will finally be passed into law, Ms Maluleke replies: "The bill is completed. In terms of when... that just needs a leadership decision."


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Songs I despise

04:32 Jan 24 2007
Times Read: 716


Songs I despise



Shania Twain - That dont impress me much

Walking in Memphis

American Woman


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Funny Time

18:47 Jan 17 2007
Times Read: 728


Don't Mess With Newfoundlanders



A Newfoundlander went to see a psychiatrist. When he got there, he said, “I've got problems. Every time I go to bed, I think there's somebody under it. I'm scared. I think I'm going crazy.”



“Just put yourself in my hands for one year,” said the shrink. “Come talk to me three times a week and we should be able to get rid of those fears.”



“How much do you charge?”



“Eighty dollars per visit,” replied the doctor. “I'll think about it,” said the Newfoundlander.



Six months later, the doctor met the Newfie on the street. “Why didn't you ever come to see about those fears you were having?” asked the psychiatrist.



“Well eighty bucks a visit three times a week for a year is an awful lot of money! A bartender cured me for $10. I was so happy to have saved all that money, I went and bought me a new pickup!”



“Is that so! And how, may I ask, did a bartender cure you?”



“He told me to cut the legs off the bed! Ain't nobody under there now!”



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Living in Canadian Provinces.....Top Reasons



TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN BRITISH COLUMBIA

1. Vancouver: 1.5 million people and two bridges. You do the math.

2. Your $400,000 Vancouver home is just 5 hours from downtown.

3. You can throw a rock and hit three Starbucks locations.

4. There's always some sort of deforestation protest going on.



TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN ALBERTA

1. Big rock between you and B.C.

2. Ottawa who?

3. Tax is 6% instead of approximately 200% as it is for the rest of the

country.

4. You can exploit almost any natural resource you can think of.

5. You live in the only province that could actually afford to be its own

country.

6. The Americans below you are all in anti-government militia groups.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN SASKATCHEWAN

1. You never run out of wheat.

2. Your province is really easy to draw.

3. You can watch the dog run away from home for hours.

4. People will assume you live on a farm.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN MANITOBA

1. You wake up one morning to find that you suddenly have a beachfront

property.

2. Hundreds of huge, horribly frigid lakes.

3. Nothing compares to a wicked Winnipeg winter.

4. You can be an Easterner or a Westerner depending on your mood.

5. You can pass the time watching trucks and barns float by.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN ONTARIO

1. You live in the centre of the universe.

2. Your $400,000 Toronto home is actually a dump.

3. You and you alone decide who will win the federal election.

4. The only province with hard-core American-style crime.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN QUEBEC

1. Racism is socially acceptable

2. You can take bets with your friends on which English neighbour will move

out next.

3. Other provinces basically bribe you to stay in Canada.

4. You can blame all your problems on the "Anglo *#!%!"





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN NEW BRUNSWICK

1. One way or another, the government gets 98% of your income.

2. You're poor, but not as poor as the Newfies.

3. No one ever blames anything on New Brunswick

4. Everybody has a grandfather who runs a lighthouse.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN NOVA SCOTIA

1. Everyone can play the fiddle. The ones who can't, think they can.

2. You can pretend to have Scottish heritage as an excuse to get drunk and

wear a kilt.

3. You are the only reason Anne Murray makes money.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN PRINCE EDWARD ISLAND

1. Even though more people live on Vancouver Island, you still got the big,

new bridge.

2. You can walk across the province in half an hour.

3. You can drive across the province in two minutes.

4. Everyone has been an extra on "Road to Avonlea."

5. This is where all those tiny, red potatoes come from.

6. You can confuse ships by turning your porch lights on and off at night.





TOP REASONS TO LIVE IN NEWFOUNDLAND

1. If Quebec separates, you will float off to sea.

2. If you do something stupid, you have a built-in excuse.

3. It is socially acceptable to wear your hip waders to your wedding


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Latest Baby news!

06:28 Jan 17 2007
Times Read: 729


We don't see any new teeth but he managed to get up on his knees in the crib and hold onto the railing. We think he will start crawling soon. He is very strong.



(OMG !)


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BABY PHOTOS!

03:13 Jan 11 2007
Times Read: 745


Taken on January 1, 2007

I am so awed, so amazed. New life in my arms. Innocent. Holds no hatred, only love and intense curiosity. Flawlessly perfect !



My son: My greatest pride.



I do however fear his biological mother may have sentenced him to a shitty life due to her carelessness and drugs. Fucking stoners.



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Free Press and Conflict

08:26 Jan 10 2007
Times Read: 746


Dont believe the hype. Dont ever rely on american news media for the facts. Its always distorted. The beauty of the internet is you can look at news agencies in other countries. Remember the USA isnt even in the top third of countries listed by freedom of the press



"People (especially americans) should get their heads out of the sand... The biggest threat to peace in the world is the US & Israel (51st state). It's funny how US and Israel can have Nukes, it is acceptable, but if someone else has them, they are labelled "terrorists" or "rogue nations" (or axis of evil). Let's face a few facts... US is the only power to deploy nukes on civilian targets." - Dashu, December 6 2006


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To realize the Value ....

07:14 Jan 10 2007
Times Read: 748


To realize

The value of a sister: Ask someone who doesn't have one



To realize

The value of ten years: Ask a newly divorced couple.



To realize

The value of four years: Ask a graduate.



To realize

The value of one year: Ask a student who has failed a final exam.



To realize

The value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.



To realize

The value of one month: Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.



To realize

The value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.



To realize

The value of one minute: Ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.



To realize

The value of one-second: Ask a person who has survived an accident.



Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.



To realize the value of a friend or family member or a Significant Other: LOSE ONE.



Remember... hold on tight to the ones you love!



Do not tell lies

Trust, Love

Forgive and Move on as if it never happened.


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A sad heart this morning

17:25 Jan 09 2007
Times Read: 754


I am thinking alot about the time I spent with my son. A mere 3 hours, it was so special. I looked him over and over, leaving me somewhat speechless.



I talked to the parents, they had questions for me, I had questions for them. My son did not have much interest in me, he was fascinated by the bright lights and sounds coming from the nearby arcade.



I wish I could visit him every few months



My heart is very sad this morning



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Lyrics, true to every day life

01:23 Jan 08 2007
Times Read: 761


The world is full of strange behaviour

Every one has to be their own saviour



I know I can make it on my own if I try

But I'm searching for a Great Heart to stand me by


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Baby News

18:04 Jan 03 2007
Times Read: 766


Liam has 2 teeth now, all on the bottom.



He is not crawling yet, but is strong enough to push himself up and around.



Photos pending!


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New music in my collection

18:04 Jan 03 2007
Times Read: 767


New favourites



Tatu - Friend or Foe

Tatu - Loves Me Not

Tatu - All About Us

Tatu - Gomenasai

Blutengel - Black Wedding

Blutengel - Die with you

blutengel - fairyland

Blutengel - Her Song

Blutengel - I will follow

My Chemical Romance - Vampires will never hurt you


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